Goldilocks

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Why do people feel that just because hair is attached to their head means that they are experts in dealing with hair? That person may have been practising 'bad habits' for so long that they may believe that they are 'good habits'. As a matter of fact, 'good genes' could have been the reason why their hair hasn't dropped out!!! Different textures handle different abuse!!
Just the way you go to the doctor for medical assistance, or a mechanic for your car, go to the hair salon for your hair needs! Don't just jump into chemicals, hair colors, glues, relaxers, gels etc. until you know the right measurements for that particular hair texture and length combination, it could be very hazardous to your hair!!! What works for one may not work for the other! Hair doesn't grow overnight! Patience, care and nurturing makes all the difference. The least amount of pushing and pulling(abuse), treatments and proper consultations can give it room to grow freely.

Seeing is Believing!

When conducting your search for a new style or service, look for someone who takes pride in their work,does their research, and practices good work ethics. What are their crudentials? Who are their clientele and what is their feedback?
If I see someone who has "that look" that I want, stop them and ask them politely where did they get that style and ask for a card or number. Then you can take it from there.
Remember, you can't judge a stylist by their card!!!

Communicate

Communication and trust is key. If the other party understands and trusts what you are saying, you will be successful at getting your point across.
Being a hairstylist, being honest and straight forward works best. Clients have ideas and wishes that can be expressed but not necessarily performed. Listening to what they want and explaining what can safely be done will work only if the client trusts you.
Whenever there is a problem with your style or service, don't just leave and go somewhere else! I can guarantee that there is a communication gap that could easily be resolved once both parties choose to listen to one another, work together ,and meet each other halfway. Leaving and going somewhere else to complain doesn't look good for any of the parties involved. The news carrier is usually worse than the news giver!! Take your time to resolve the situation first and then if there is no resolution, then you can move on to another stylist that can suit to please. Remember, if you don't deal with your issues before you move on, that issue just might come up again!!

Ladies...Ladies...Ladies...Please...Please...Please...When you have finished getting your lace front applied correctly, why do you feel like that's it? It's just an empty canvas wanting to be customized to come alive and enhance your beautiful features. Not to display your not so beautiful ones! Don't just leave without professionally cutting and styling your top quality investment!!! That's what separates you from the rest. It's yours and no one else's!!! It's these little details that make the big difference.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Take Your Time!

Lace- is an openwork fabric patterned with open holes in the work made by machine or hand.

Whenever there is something attached to your head,whether it be glued or sewn, YOU NEED TO TAKE EXTRA TIME AND CARE TO COMB GENTLY...Even when you comb your natural hair, you must be gentle. Hair sheds naturally on it's own daily much less yanking the rest out with impatience and harsh brushing.
To me, lace fronts and weaves are too much of an investment to abuse. Take your time and use the proper tools to groom your natural fibres!

Cut and Style,Make it Yours

Ladies...Ladies...Ladies..Please...Please...When you have finished getting your lace front or weaves applied correctly, why do you feel like that's it? It's just an empty canvas wanting to be customized to come alive to enhance your beautiful features. Not to display your not so beautiful ones! Don't just leave without professionally cutting and styling your top quality investment!!! That's what separates you from the rest. It's yours and no one else's!!!!! It's these little details that make the big difference.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Charlene “Goldilocks ” Shillingford

Well first and foremost I’d like to welcome you all to the ASK GOLDILOCKS open blog, this blog will touch on everything and anything you need to know about hair. And if I haven’t addressed your questions or concerns you- ASK GOLDILOCKS.

Before I bless my very first blog entry with hair my hair knowledge, I’d like to tell my readers a little about myself:

Since we are communicating thorough a virtual outlet you can’t sense the air around me; I live, I breath, I sleep hair. Hair is my passion, hair is my hobby, hair was my very first love. For all you artist out there I’m sure you can understand where I’m coming from, and for those of you who don’t let me explain.

My very first client was my superstar Barbie Head. She had real cuticle hair, the ideal oval face, long angular neck and best of all- she was silent! Superstar Barbie was my best client (no offence to my other client I value you all in your own special way). I took all necessary measures to achieve the right look, I changed her hair as I changed my mood. I did to her what I secretly wanted to do to myself. I began to live vicariously through the doll. It was through this doll an artist was born- thanks Mattel!

Hair is what I believe in, hair is what I know. After 23 years of intensive product knowledge, thorough hair analysis, scalp psychoanalysis, chemical analysis, and a little psychology (you need to study the head inside before you can beautify it outside). Hands-on training at a number of educational institutes; National Institute of Cosmetology, Topaz Basic and Advanced School of Hair Design to name a few. Am I accredited by apprenticeships, seminars, workshops, degrees, innovating my own business Hair Movements International, and ultimately colliding to forces with my latest undertaking; a collaboration with Rupunzel’s Hair Boutique. Through my many experiences I’ve had the pleasure of interacting with many wonderful people, and also share my expertise of hair as my skill, hair as my passion hair as my art.

One of my prized abilities is the tool of reconstruction. I can bring anything back to life, I can make each client look his or her best and emote an unimaginable beauty. I can see in others what they can’t see in themselves, and I know what’s needed to achieve and maintain that distinctive look for each person. I stride to create personable, low maintenance, natural designs that clients need not worry about during their everyday lives. I take pleasure in providing “hair therapy”, when the going gets tough, or when a boost of confidence is needed- my chair is open. I love being their to lend an ear, a word or just a helping hand. These hands I have are not as simple as they seem; each finger can tell a story, each knuckle bends a special ways. My hands are the window to my expression, and through them I want to touch the world “one strand at a time”.

But before art, before hair I am a proud mother of three sons, they make me whole and with them I heighten my artist abilities and gather additional creative expression.

God, music and hair are the balance I need to keep going and they continues to light the flames of my passion on a daily basis. Through them I am paid spiritually, emotionally, and financially. I am grateful for these things because they allow me to be myself , and grant me the humble bearing to be me and continue to touch peoples lives.

On that note Goldilocks says; “Come out of the box! Try new things; wigs curls, long and sexy, short and sassy, hi-lites, lo-lites, foils, weaves- something”

Quotes to remember:

“Wear your hair, don’t let it wear you”
“Wear the right style to bring off the right outfit and event”
“Make it your own; work it! Work it! Work it”
“Less is Best”
“Keep it light and flowing”
And last but not least……………
Ladies remember men love hair that is soft, sexy and free of product that they can run their hands through and vast in the natural pleasant aroma.

November 2008 style of the month: “The Avenue Curl”
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